Thursday, April 2, 2009

Muslim Women Voice Opinions on Spousal Abuse


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theVoice Video Talk Show
-- March 28, 2009
(right, Chapter 4, Verse 34, of the Holy Qur'an)

MANASSAS - The second uViews segment of "theVoice" video talk show held in a sprawling northern Virginia suburb was anything but ordinary. Five American Muslim women from diverse backgrounds gathered for a frank discussion on marriage, domestic violence, and spousal abuse. Interest in holding public discussions on spousal abuse has increased significantly since the death of Bridges TV executive Aasiya Zubair Hassan, allegedly murdered by her husband, Muzzamil Hassan, in February. 'Aqila Mujahid Al-Bayati, producer of the segment and CEO of the Association of Muslim Women in America, the organization sponsoring the program, developed the idea for the video discussions as a way to use technology to reach a wide audience on various topics of interest to Muslim women. "It's important for our opinions to be heard on topics that impact us, to change the perception that Muslim women are out of touch and unable to think and respond to issues which affect us", said Al-Bayati. "We need to create our own media that lets our voices be heard and that reflects our beliefs and values rather than letting others speak for us."

Key to the discussion was Chapter 4,
Surah Al Nisaa ("The Women"), Verse 34, which describes men as the "protectors of women". The controversial english translation of this verse implies that a man may strike his wife as a way to resolve marital conflict. Different uses and translations of the arabic word duraba were central to the argument against striking the wife as a way to resolve conflict, citing the actual practices of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and the fact that it was not part of his sunnah (daily practice and habits) to strike his wives or children.

After 30 minutes of lively discussion, the panel determined that the discussion should be continued in future segments to help women get a better understanding on the subject. Followup segments are planned for the near future.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Muslim Women "Break The Silence" In WebEx Conference

Breaking the Silence: Answering Spousal Abuse with Proactive Intervention Strategies

[PRESS RELEASE - March 7, 2009, Midlothian, VA] Beyond the public condemnations and statements made denouncing domestic violence and spousal abuse, what strategies are needed now to address domestic violence and prevent spousal abuse? In communities with conservative religious values and ethnically-diverse populations, how do we develop effective interventions to help at-risk families and break the cycle of violence?

Culturally-diverse populations need culturally-sensitive interventions which reflect input from practitioners working in those communities. But in communities with conservative religious values, how do we create opportunities for troubled individuals and families to seek help to break the cycle of violence?

On Saturday, March 21, 2 p.m. (EDT), a group of Muslim practitioners from national and regional organizations will discuss these issues in a scheduled internet Webex conference entitled "Breaking the Silence: Answering Spousal Abuse with Proactive Intervention Strategies." Community leaders and service providers are strongly encouraged to attend. Pre-registration is required to join the session. Session seats for this free web conference are limited to the first 25 registrations. Register for Meeting ID 927 512 936 at http://my.webex.com/join

WebEx Conference Title:
Breaking the Silence: Answering Spousal Abuse with Proactive Intervention Strategies


WebEx Conference Session ID: 927 512 936
Website: http://my.webex.com/join

About The Presenters:

Aneesah Nadir, MSW, Ph.D
, is President of the Islamic Social Services Association-US (ISSA) and Director of the Muslim Alliance of North America (MANA) "Healthy Marriage Initiative". She co-authored the chapter, Islam, in Spirituality and Religious Traditions in Social Work Practice (edited by Van Hoo, Hugen and Aguilar, 2001) and is author of the chapter, Promoting Positive Marital Outcomes Among Muslims in America in Islam in America: Images and Challenges (edited by Lin, 1998).

Salma Abugideiri, M.Ed., LPC, is a licensed professional counselor and co-director of the "Peaceful Families Project", a program dedicated to educating Muslim community members and leaders about domestic violence. She provides culturally-sensitive training to professionals and practitioners from other faiths and beliefs who serve Muslim families. Ms. Abugideiri co-authored a guide entitled "What Islam Says About Domestic Violence" and wrote a chapter in Change from Within: Diverse Perspectives on Domestic Violence in Muslim Communities.

Robina Niaz, MS, MSW
, is founder and Executive Director of "Turning Point for Women and Families" a social services agency serving Muslim women and families based in Queens, NY. As a social worker, community/women's rights activist and trained sexual assault counselor, she has provided services as a social work consultant to several organizations including ICNA-Relief.

Bonita McGee, MA
, President and co-founder of Muslim Family Services-OH, and board member of ISSA-US, has been involved in research evaluating attitudes and perceptions of religious leaders within the Muslim community towards domestic violence. She has served as counselor in the Domestic Violence Unit of the DC Superior Court and is the co-chair of the Domestic Violence Awareness Program for the Islamic Society of North America (ISNA).

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Bridges TV Exec Will Plead "Not Guilty" to Charge of Murdering Wife

Muzzammil Hassan, left, founder of Bridges TV, charged with murder in the beheading of his wife, Aasiya Hassan in Orchard Park, is confined to the backseat of an Erie County Sheriff's patrol vehicle entering the garage of the Orchard Park Courthouse in Orchard Park, N.Y. on Wednesday, Feb. 18, 2009. Hassan is accused of beheading his wife Aasiya Zubair Hassan.




Suspect ‘almost in shock’ over wife’s beheading
By Fred O. Williams
NEWS STAFF REPORTER
Updated: 02/19/09 08:22 AM

ORCHARD PARK - Under arrest in his wife’s brutal death, Muzzammil Hassan is “almost in shock,” his attorney said Wednesday following a court appearance in Orchard Park.

“He’s having difficulty coping with this,” attorney James Harrington said.

Hassan, 44, appeared briefly in the Orchard Park courtroom Wednesday for the first official proceeding since he was arrested last week and charged with seconddegree murder. His wife, Aasiya, was found beheaded at the office of their business in the Village of Orchard Park.

Tall and stout in a tan suit, he was led into the courtroom in handcuffs, blinking through his glasses at the approximately two dozen people gathered.

Police had blocked off the street in front of the municipal building on South Buffalo Street and prevented attendees from taking cell phones, cameras or recorders into the courtroom.

During the brief felony hearing, Harrington waived the presentation of evidence, clearing the way for a grand jury proceeding.

“If and when he’s indicted, he’ll plead not guilty,” said Harrington, adding, “It’s too early to know what approach we’ll take, but we’re exploring everything.”

Assistant District Attorney Colleen Curtin Gable said her office would seek an indictment against Hassan within 45 days on a charge of seconddegree murder. The first-degree charge is reserved for special circumstances, including torture or the death of police.

Conviction on second-degree murder carries penalties ranging from 15 years to life in prison, to 25 years to life, she said.

Hassan was returned to the Erie County Holding Center after his court appearance.

Harrington said that a history of domestic violence will be part of the case.

“They had their problems,” he said.

Orchard Park police said they had been called to the couple’s home on Big Tree Road because of domestic disputes previously. The most recent occasion was Feb. 6, the day Aasiya Hassan filed for divorce and obtained an order of protection barring Muzzammil Hassan from the house.

Although Hassan told police where to find his wife’s body, he has not confessed, Harrington said. Hassan went to Police Headquarters last Thursday evening and said his wife was dead at their business office, a Muslim-oriented television channel on Thorn Avenue.

Harrington rejected a connection between the beheading of Aasiya Hassan and the couple’s Muslim religion and culture.

“No, it does not [have any bearing],” he said, adding, “I think the media is doing a very great disservice to the Muslim community.”

The brutal nature of the crime has raised questions about whether it was a so-called “honor killing,” a possibility that the district attorney’s office is investigating. Harrington called questions about the extreme violence of the act inappropriate.

Advocates for women — some of them Muslims — have called for the community to acknowledge religious and cultural traditions that stigmatize divorce and heighten the danger of violence in divorce cases.

Meanwhile, the Imams Council of Greater Western New York on Tuesday issued a statement calling it “unfair to vilify the Islamic faith or Muslims” in the homicide.

“To generalize the issue is misleading and masks the real problem that women globally are being abused and domestic violence is on the rise. We must all unite in condemning anyone, of any faith or culture, who harms the innocent and recognize that the causes of domestic violence are not limited to any religion or culture.”

fwilliams@buffnews.com
http://www.buffalonews.com/cityregion/story/583859.html

Asma Firfirey: "Monster Decapitated My Sister"

'Monster decapitated my Sister'
Beheading may have been heard on phone in S.Africa

Updated: Wednesday, 18 Feb 2009, 12:26 PM EST
Published : Tuesday, 17 Feb 2009, 6:31 PM EST

* WIVB.com with Reports from News24, Die Berger

(Aasiya Hassan on the cover of a recent issue of "Azizah" magazine. The caption ironically reads, "SEEKING SANCTUARY")

BUFFALO, N.Y. - Several South African media outlets are reporting that the sister of Aasiya Zubair Hassan may have been on the cell phone with her sister during her beheading at the Orchard Park offices of Bridges TV.

Hassan was brutally murdered on the premises of the Bridges TV network, an English Islamic cable network started in 2004 with the mission of improving the image of Muslims in America.

News 24 in Cape Town reports that Asma Firfirey was on the phone with her sister when she heard the couple arguing and her sister Aasiya struggling for air. When she called back a receptionist told her that everyhing was okay.

Muzzammil Hassan, 44, the founder and CEO of Bridges Television Network, turned himself into police on Thursday night, telling police that his wife was dead. Hassan had just been served with divorce papers and ordered to stay out of the couple's Orchard Park home.

The victim's sister, AsmaFirfirey told News 24 in Cape Town, "I can only imagine how scared and emotional she must have been before she died."

Firfirey is concerned about the welfare of the couple's young children, Rania, 4, and Danyal, 6, who are now being cared for by a colleague. A court proceeding was scheduled for Tuesday afternoon to discuss the matter.

The news reports also state that when Aasiya visited South Africa last May 'she had been assaulted so badly she had to pay R30,000 (aprox. $2929) in medical fees.

Aasiya Zubair Hassan was 37 years old and reportedly had met her husband on the Internet. This was the third marriage for her husband, Mo Hassan.

Firefirey calls her brother-in-law 'the fat man with evil eyes'.

Muzzammil (Mo) Hassan is slated to appear at a felony court hearing Wednesday afternoon.

http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/Monster_decapitated_my_sister_20090217

Silent Shame: "Community Knew Aasiya Hassan Was Being Abused"

Muslim community knew of Hassan's abuse

Grand Jury will decide if he heads to trial

Updated: Thursday, 19 Feb 2009, 9:48 AM EST
Published : Thursday, 19 Feb 2009, 7:33 AM EST

ORCHARD PARK, N.Y. (WIVB) - A grand jury will now decide whether the founder of Bridges TV will go to trial for the decapitation murder of his wife, Aasiya Zubair Hassan.

"Everyone in the Muslim community was aware that she was indeed going through abuse," said Attorney Nadia Shahram."

Although not evident in family pictures, investigators say the 37-year-old mother endured abuse at the hands of her husband, Muzzammil Hassan.

Hassan is accused of beheading his wife last Thursday at Bridges TV in Orchard Park.

He walked into Orchard police headquarters and told them that his wife is dead. "Well, obviously that statement is part of the case and will be part of the proof the prosecution has," said James Harrington, Hassan's Defense Attorney.

Hassan founded Bridges TV following the 9/11 attacks against America. He wanted to dispel stereotypes about Muslims and to bridge cultures.

"We have to make sure act of one Muslim does not create any doubt on the religion of Islam," said Shahram.

Shahram added, "This act has no roots in the religion of Islam. It's just unfortunate that we have a bad practioner of Islam."

Aasiyah had recently filed for divorce and got a court order of protection.

"Divorce means shame for Muslim woman," said Shahram.

When asked if the history of domestic violence will play a role in this case Hassan's defense attorney James Harrington answered, "Yes, sure it will. That is an issue in this case."

Taking a stand against domestic violence is said to be especially difficult for Muslim women. Aasiya's decision may have cost her her life and her husband could spend the rest of his life in prison.

http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/Muslim_community_knew_of_Hassans_abuse_20090219



Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Deja Vu? Bridges "Broken" As Couples Marital Problems Lead to Murder

Man accused of beheading wife called 'gentle'

Couple founded TV station near Buffalo, N.Y. to counter Muslim stereotypes

The Associated Press
updated 7:56 p.m. ET, Tues., Feb. 17, 2009

ORCHARD PARK, N.Y. - The crime drips with brutal irony: a woman decapitated, allegedly by her estranged husband, in the offices of the television network the couple founded with the hope of countering Muslim stereotypes.

Muzzammil "Mo" Hassan is accused of beheading his wife last week, days after she filed for divorce. Authorities have not discussed the role religion or culture might have played, but the slaying gave rise to speculation that it was the sort of "honor killing" more common in countries half a world away, including the couple's native Pakistan.

Funeral services for Aasiya Hassan, 37, were Tuesday. Her 44-year-old husband is scheduled to appear for a felony hearing Wednesday.

The Hassans lived in Orchard Park — a well-off Buffalo suburb that hadn't seen a homicide since 1986 — and started Bridges TV there in 2004 with the message of developing understanding between North America and the Middle East and South Asia. The network, available across the U.S. and Canada, was believed to be the first English-language cable station aimed at the rapidly growing Muslim demographic.

Orchard Park Police Chief Andrew Benz said his officers had responded to domestic incidents involving the couple, most recently Feb. 6, the day Mo Hassan was served with the divorce papers and an order of protection.

'Never heard him raise his voice'
"I've never heard him raise his voice," said Paul Moskal, who became friendly with the couple while he was chief counsel for the FBI in Buffalo. Moskal would answer questions in forums aired on Bridges TV that were intended to improve understanding between Muslim-Americans and law enforcement.

"His personal life kind of betrayed what he tried to portray publicly," Moskal said.

On Feb. 12, Hassan went to a police station and told officers his wife was dead at the TV studio.

"We found her laying in the hallway the offices were off of," Benz said. Aasiya Hassan's head was near her body.

"I don't know if (the method of death) does mean anything," said the chief, who would not discuss what weapon may have been used. "We certainly want to investigate anything that has any kind of merit. It's not a normal thing you would see."

Hassan was not represented by an attorney at an initial appearance on a charge of second-degree murder. Neither police nor the Erie County district attorney's office knew if he had hired a lawyer.

NOW condemns prosecutors
The New York president of the National Organization for Women, Marcia Pappas, condemned prosecutors for referring to the death as an apparent case of domestic violence.

"This was, apparently, a terroristic version of 'honor killing,'" a statement from NOW said.

Nadia Shahram, who teaches family law and Islam at the University at Buffalo Law School, explained honor killing as a practice still accepted among fanatical Muslim men who feel betrayed by their wives.

"If a woman breaks the law which the husband or father has placed for the wife or daughter, honor killing has been justified," said Shahram, who was a regular panelist on a law show produced by Bridges TV. "It happens all the time. It's been practiced in countries such as Pakistan and in India."

Acquaintances said Mo Hassan was not overtly religious — co-workers did not see him pray, for instance. But he seemed to adhere to many traditional practices.

Nancy Sanders, the television station's news director for 2 1/2 years, remembers him asking her to move her feet during her job interview so he would not see her legs. She was wearing a skirt and stockings.

He also would not let women enter his office unless his wife was there, and he blocked the station from airing a story about the first Muslim woman to win the title of Miss England in 2005, Sanders said.

Acquaintances said Aasiya Hassan was trained as an architect. Sanders described her as obedient to her husband, and that she wore a traditional hijab for a time but later stopped without explanation.

'Gentle giant'
"She was beautiful, small, delicately built," she said, "while Mo would fill up a door frame. I always thought of him as a gentle giant."

Sanders, who left Bridges TV a year ago, said co-workers traded stories about Hassan's apparent violent streak, including one which had him running his wife's car off the road while the couple's two young children were inside. Aasiya herself never spoke of it, she said.

"I just do not feel it was an honor killing," Sanders added. "I think it was domestic abuse that got out of control."

Erie County District Attorney Frank Sedita did not immediately respond to The Associated Press' request for a copy of the order of protection issued against Mo Hassan. Divorce records are sealed in New York state. Aasiya Hassan's lawyer would not reveal the reasons for the divorce filing.

Hassan graduated with an MBA from the Simon School of Business at the University of Rochester in 1996, according to the TV station's Web site. Bridges broadcasts all over the United States and in Canada on various cable providers and Verizon FiOS. As of 6 p.m. Tuesday, the network was not broadcasting in the Buffalo area.

There was no answer at the network on Tuesday and its Web site has a message saying Bridges is shocked and saddened and requests privacy.

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29245206/

Bridges TV GM Appeals for "Privacy" and Support In Wake of Murder Case

Station Embroiled in Controversy After CEO Charged With Grizzly Crime

mwViews News
-- February 18, 2009

BUFFALO, NY - (mwV) The interim general manager of Bridges TV, Hunaid Baliwala, made a public internet appeal today to respect "the
right to privacy for the families and staff" in the aftermath of the brutal slaying of Aasiyah Hassan, estranged wife of Bridges CEO and co-founder, Muzzamil Hassan. Hassan allegedly decapitated his wife in his office on February 15 and then contacted the police. Details concerning the case remain sketchy but reportedly involved enforcement of a protective order that required Muzzamil Hassan to vacate the family home on February 6.

In the wake of this controversy, the future of the syndicated station Hassan helped established to present a positive image of Islam for the American viewing public remains unclear as does the impact of Budaila's public appeal (see below).

"Dear Friends,

My name is Hunaid Baliwala and I have been at Bridges since May of 2005. I am writing to you as the newly appointed interim General Manager of Bridges TV. Previously, I held a number of operations and business development roles.

We apologize that we have not been able to connect with you earlier, as we were trying to deal with this shocking event and did not have access to our facilities.

At Bridges TV, all the staff members are deeply shocked and saddened by the murder of Aasiya Hassan [Zubair] and subsequent arrest of Muzzammil Hassan. Our deepest condolences and prayers go out to the victim’s family. This appears to be the most tragic of domestic violence incidents and, although we have heard statistics that imply that more than three cases of domestic violence occur every day in the US, no one here could ever imagine that this may happen to our beloved colleague.

While the staff is obviously in a state of shock given how closely we all worked with both Aasiya and Muzzammil, we are all unwavering in our determination that, for the sake of Aasiyaʼs vision of this channel, we remain strong and continue the good work that she had initiated. We have a strong staff and I am confident in the success of the Company moving forward.

I would like to request that the right to privacy for the families and staff be respected as we continue to go about our daily business routine.

The two biggest issues that we currently face at Bridges TV are the negative publicity generated by this domestic violence incident and the ongoing funding constraint. Both are extremely time sensitive and are being addressed directly by myself and our Board of Directors (composed primarily of our investors). Without your support we would not have been able to come this far. Therefore, we value your continued support and will need it to get through this challenging time. If you have any ideas and suggestions please do not hesitate to contact me. Given all the myriad of activities at Bridges TV, I may not be able to respond to each correspondence but please let me assure you that all will be read and absorbed by our team. We are all resolute in fulfilling Aasiyaʼs mission for Bridges TV.

If you know anyone who would find this information useful or helpful please pass this along.

Hunaid Baliwala
Phone: 716-961-3140"
EM: hbaliwala@bridgestv.com"